Rating
(type a number from 1 to 7)
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Statement
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1. I'm afraid that I will lose my partner's love.
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2. I am talkative with my partner.
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3. I prefer not to show a partner how I feel deep down.
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4. I tend to find fault with my partner.
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5. I often worry that my partner will not want to stay with me.
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6. I feel comfortable sharing my private thoughts and feelings with my partner.
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7. I often feel depressed and blue about my relationships.
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8. I often worry that my partner doesn't really love me.
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9. I am reserved when with my partner.
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10. I find it difficult to allow myself to depend on romantic partners.
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11. I worry that romantic partners won’t care about me as much as I care about them.
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12. I am helpful and unselfish with my partner.
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13. I am very comfortable being close to romantic partners.
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14. I am relaxed and handle stress about my relationships well.
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15. I often wish that my partner's feelings for me were as strong as my feelings for him or her.
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16. I don't feel comfortable opening up to romantic partners.
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17. When I am with my partner‚ I am full of energy.
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18. I worry a lot about my relationships.
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19. I start quarrels with my partner.
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20. I prefer not to be too close to romantic partners.
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21. When my partner is out of sight‚ I worry that he or she might become interested in someone else.
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22. I can be tense about my relationships.
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23. I get uncomfortable when a romantic partner wants to be very close.
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24. When I am with my partner‚ I generate a lot of enthusiasm.
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25. When I show my feelings for romantic partners‚ I'm afraid they will not feel the same about me.
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26. I find it relatively easy to get close to my partner.
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27. I have a forgiving nature when it comes to my partner.
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28. I rarely worry about my partner leaving me.
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29. I tend to be quiet around my partner.
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30. It's not difficult for me to get close to my partner.
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31. My romantic partner makes me doubt myself.
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32. I am generally trusting of my partner.
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33. I usually discuss my problems and concerns with my partner.
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34. I am emotionally stable and not easily upset about my relationships.
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35. I do not often worry about being abandoned.
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36. It helps to turn to my romantic partner in times of need.
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37. I have an assertive personality with my partner.
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38. I find that my partner(s) don't want to get as close as I would like.
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39. I can be cold and aloof with my partner.
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40. I tell my partner just about everything.
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41. Sometimes romantic partners change their feelings about me for no apparent reason.
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42. I can be moody about my relationships.
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43. I talk things over with my partner.
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44. I am sometimes shy and inhibited around my partner.
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45. My desire to be very close sometimes scares people away.
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46. I am nervous when partners get too close to me.
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47. I am considerate and kind to my partner.
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48. I'm afraid that once a romantic partner gets to know me‚ he or she won't like who I really am.
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49. In my romantic relationships‚ I remain calm in tense situations.
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50. I feel comfortable depending on romantic partners.
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51. It makes me mad that I don't get the affection and support I need from my partner.
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52. I am outgoing and sociable with my partner.
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53. I find it easy to depend on romantic partners.
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54. I am sometimes rude to my partner.
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55. I worry that I won't measure up to other people.
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56. It's easy for me to be affectionate with my partner.
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57. I get nervous about my relationships easily.
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58. My partner only seems to notice me when I’m angry.
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59. I like to cooperate with my partner.
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60. My partner really understands me and my needs.
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